Let’s be real for a second: there’s no such thing as perfect balancing biz with mom life. Some days, you’re crushing it in your business, and some days, you’re just happy if you get through the day without a meltdown. And other days? You’re running on fumes, trying to manage emails while your toddler is demanding snacks every 15 minutes. If you’re nodding your head right now, you’re not alone.
It’s easy to look at the curated images of other women “balancing it all” on Instagram and think you’re failing. But here’s the truth: balance is a myth. Instead of perfection, the key is finding flow, creating boundaries, and being okay with the messy parts. Here’s a behind-the-scenes look at how I juggle both my business and being a mom—some days are better than others, but that’s just part of the ride.
The Myth of Perfect Balance
Let’s talk about this myth of balance. The idea that you can perfectly divide your time between work and family, giving both equal attention and energy, is so unrealistic. Sure, there are days when everything clicks—when your kids are entertained, you get all your tasks done, and life feels in perfect sync. But, spoiler alert, those days are rare.
In reality, balancing biz with mom life means recognizing that some days, you’ll excel in one area and not the other. And that’s okay. Some days, my business needs me to go all in, and other days, my kids need me to put work aside and be fully present. The trick is learning to be flexible and giving yourself grace when things don’t go according to plan.
You’re Doing Better Than You Think
Here’s something I remind myself (and you should too): you’re doing better than you think. Every day isn’t going to be a success story. There will be days when your kid spills juice all over the carpet while you’re on an important call or when you forget to send that email. And you know what? That’s okay. In those moments, it’s easy to feel like you’re falling short, but you’re not.
Balancing biz with mom life is less about perfection and more about survival. It’s about showing up—whether you’re knocking out a project in your business or reading your child’s favorite book for the 20th time. Success isn’t always about checking off your to-do list. It’s about showing up in whatever capacity you can, and being proud of yourself for doing so.
Some Days, You’re “Winning” in One Area
There are days when I’m all about the hustle—productive, on top of my business, and knocking out goals. Those are the days when my to-do list looks like it might actually be achievable, and I feel on fire. On these days, I’ve figured out the rhythm. The kids are taken care of, my emails are getting responded to, and I’m checking boxes left and right. Everything flows.
But let’s be honest, these days don’t happen every day. And that’s okay. The next day, I might find myself juggling tantrums, meal prep, and spilled milk instead of working on my next launch. That’s the reality of balancing biz with mom life—and it’s messy. But even on those days, I’m still moving forward, even if it’s at a slower pace.
Embracing the Chaos
The sooner you embrace the chaos, the sooner you realize that you don’t need to be perfect—you just need to be consistent. Balancing biz with mom life is less about achieving equilibrium every single day and more about adjusting to what’s in front of you. One day might be all about your business; another day might be about your kids. And some days, it’s both.
For me, embracing that imperfection means I’ve had to let go of unrealistic expectations. I had to stop trying to perfectly schedule my day and embrace flexibility. For example, I might start the day with a plan to focus on work for three hours, but then an unexpected issue with the kids pops up, and suddenly I’m switching gears. The flexibility to pivot without guilt is key to surviving the juggle.
Giving Yourself Permission to Rest
I can’t stress this enough: you need to give yourself permission to rest. When you’re balancing business with motherhood, it’s easy to burn out, thinking you have to be “on” all the time. But if you don’t make time for yourself, you’re not going to be able to show up for anyone else.
Taking breaks, prioritizing sleep, and stepping away from work when you need to is crucial. Sometimes, taking a nap while the kids are napping or zoning out with a book for an hour is exactly what you need to keep going. Without rest, you’re not giving your best self to either your business or your family.
The Bottom Line: It’s About Flexibility, Not Perfection
Balancing biz with mom life doesn’t mean doing everything perfectly. It means being flexible, adjusting to the needs of the day, and giving yourself the grace to be imperfect. Some days you’ll nail it, and other days, you’ll just survive—and that’s enough.
The key is consistency and self-compassion. Keep showing up, even if it’s in small ways. As long as you’re present, doing your best, and not letting guilt consume you, you’re doing a hell of a job.
How do you manage balancing biz with mom life? Let me know in the comments, or send me a message—I’d love to hear how you juggle it all (or how you’re learning to let go of perfection)! Let’s support each other in this beautiful, chaotic ride of motherhood and business.
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